Archive for November, 2007

Need Your Input, Some Wisdom, and–

Sunday, November 25th, 2007

Hi,


Well, the audio version of Wanted: Liars,
Thieves, and Murderers is almost ready! I
only have six chapters left to record, and
those will probably be done later today.


But, I need your input.


How much is it worth to be able to hear this
work?


Remember, this is a book that will be able to
help people understand that their life can
move forward regardless of their past.


It’s a book that can be used by churches to
help people come to salvation.


And, it’s even got some of my ir-repressible
humor in it.


The man who kicked me into gear showed me
flat out that I can’t give stuff away forever.


And nobody is donating.


So, my question is this:


What is it worth? $5? $10? $17? $27?


I know that actual physical audio books sell
for around $29. But, they have a
mass-marketing machine that lets them do
that. And, this book will be instantly
downloadable, so it saves me headaches of
having to deal with delays, shipments, and
logistics.


But, I need to know from you what it is
worth.


Anyhow, enough of that, how about some
wisdom? (That’s why you’re really here,
isn’t it?)


I recently hit a low in my day time job.


No, I won’t go into the details, but needless
to say, it caused me and some of my family
members a lot of grief.


I began questioning why I am here? If I can’t
reach real success with my day job, than what
good am I?


And, then I realized that I had pinned all my
hopes on relying on others. The problem was
not that I had not done my job, but that the
people that I relied on for success in my job
couldn’t complete their part in a timely
manner.


It’s called “locus of control.” The “locus”
(no, this is nothing to do with them
grasshopper like creatures known as locust
that are mentioned as John the Baptist eating
and what plagued the Pharoah of Moses’ time)
is the location of where the control lies.
I cannot “control” other people. As a matter
of fact, Wallace Wattles said that would be
wrong to do so. But, I can control what I can
do.


I’ve found some alternatives in case my day
job doesn’t work out. But, that’s because
“I” chose to locate the alternatives.
There are no earthly people that you can rely
on infallibly. There are some who will be
more reliable than others, but there are no
earthly people that you can 100% rely on.
But, you can rely on the “universe” whom I
choose to call God. You can align yourself
with universal laws, and control what YOU can
do.


When you are down, when you have given up
hope, remember this: “the universe” (code
word “God”) has not given up on you. There
is another path that is better in the long
run. But, you have to believe. It will reveal
itself.


In other words, it ain’t over until you’re
dead. And you obviously ain’t dead, yet,
because you are reading this, aren’t you?
(And, even when you’re dead, there’s a better
“life” where you are headed.)


Make it a great day in the Lord!


Brother Paul
er Paul 

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Talking About Control!

Saturday, November 10th, 2007

James, the brother of Jesus wrote that “he who
can control his tongue can control his whole body.”
But, YOU never have ANY problem with that, right?
(Note that the capitalization is denoting huge amounts
of sarcasm!)
I know that’s one of my biggest problems.
Controlling the tongue.
But, we’re going to start exploring how to control the
tongue, and your whole body.
Your body is interconnected with your emotional state.
Let’s try it, okay!
Try this: I want you to dig your chin deep into your
chest, look down at the floor, hunch your shoulders up,
and state:
“I’m really, really happy.”
How’d that come out?
Yeah, I know. The words don’t sound like you’re
really, really happy, do they?
Well, try this:
Throw your arms wide up into the air, put a huge smile
on your face, and announce to the whole world:
“I’m so depressed!”
Doesn’t work, does it.
Well, that’s the thing with the way we all were
designed.
Experts have made thousands of dollars “reading people”
by looking at their body language.
Your body was designed to show how you really feel.
And, you can lie all day long, but somebody who is
really good at reading body language can tell you’re
lying.
There are people who have learned to “mind read” what
people are thinking just by looking at their face.
So, if you truly focus on what you are saying, and you
really believe it, your whole body will be in agreement
with it.
So, here’s what you do:
When you want to just “tell somebody off”, I want you
to stop.
Now, relax your whole body before you say anything.
Look this person straight in the eye, and now say it
factually without anger.
Yes, you may hurt their feelings, because you expressed
yourself. But you have now done so, without anger, and
without foul intentionally hurting words.
And, you didn’t even insult his or her mother or any of
his or her anatomical parts!
You have done so with assertion, instead of aggression.
Your mouth cannot harm others, if you are relaxed and
focusing on stating your feelings in a calm, relaxed
way.
This is the start of controlling your tongue, and your
body. By inter-twining the two, and realizing they are
tied together, you can now change your posture, or your
body, and start to control your tongue.
We’ll talk more later.
By the way, if you haven’t invested in yourself for the
paltry sum of 97 cents, what are you waiting for.
Yeah, if you want to use it for internet marketing, you
can do so for $9.97, but I don’t think most of you got
on this list just for that!
Here’s where you can buy the PDF for just 97 cents:
http://www.foundsecrets.com/badhabits/index.html
and if you want the special deal for the Private Label
Rights for just $9.97(it’s $14.97 if you buy it later),
you can get that here:
http://www.foundsecrets.com/badhabits/fsbponly.html
If you buy it through the Private Label Rights link,
don’t buy the PDF link, as the PDF is included in the
Private Label Rights link.
Make it a great day!
Brother Paul

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